Isamama生活隨想

2014年1月12日 星期日

an U.S. Army veteran for Vietnam War

Today, I'm in the lobby to teach an old Alaskan man, how to use a iPad…….
the classes even not started yet, I've been to hear from him do keep to Complain! Usually some older people very resistant to learn computer, because they think this is a frustrating thing to them never to learn, or many of the terms that they did not understand and to explain it's take a lot of time, I do understand, Mr.Bill always said he's eye can't see the words bla~bla~bla…… I said: then don't use it! He said: no way! because he need to use open the email……so…..

I asked him to bring a notebook to note down every thing, he didn't really want to, but I told him everyone's to learn computer should note every thing what they can, not to trust their easy to forgettable poor brain try to remember every things! yes, I know I am very harsh on this one! Because I do not want to explain it again! there is nothing to resist, Since we must accept to use it! Mr.Bill even login he's gmail have been asking us about one month! He said: he rather to pay for some one who can help, I'm immediately to said: Bill there is no everyone always available time for you, and yet money it's not every thing, since that, Mr.Bill he would note the efforts and hard work on that what we told him the every step, my colleagues yumi chan very thanks for me to help her solve this problem! LOL Otherwise, Bill will every morning to say hi to her!

actually, Mr. Bill he's not a bad guest! He staying here already for two months now, he was join the Vietnam War as an U.S. Army veteran wounded soldiers, once we invited him come to join our dinner together, I asked if he had lung disease? ! Because his breathing is very loud, so he told me his story! His hometown in the Alaska and when the Vietnam War start he was been pushed to into this battle? ! (I'm not sure seems impossible but it happened to him) one time he was a during a mission, have one Vietcong was a use a Butt of a rifle to break he's throat @@ so Mr.Bill to kill the Vietcong after he use a knife to cut his throat to allow he can get the air, otherwise he could not breathe! after Bill's buddy to sent him go to emergency medical readiness of the surgery, then flew combat to larger hospital stay more than a year, and then returned to U.S. for treatment how to practice vocal about four years after he can use the strength of the abdomen to exercise got back his voice...…

At this moment, my head suddenly jumped inside Forrest Gump episode also he when to a Vietnam to fight, and his captains, Mr. Dan also got shot and wounded with a mission, regardless of the danger of life Forrest Gump carrying Captain Dan desperately ran so first way back the Vietcong can't catch them > < will, Forrest Gump is really a good movie~ Uh, sorry back to world!

anyway, God Blessing Mr.Bill, after a glorious return to hometown, got married and bought a house, but he's marriage only for a year, after Mr. Bill gave a way a house to he's friend in Alaska, began life a Adventure or flirting in every where? I saw he's clothes are very fit to his body, I said it must be customized by Bangkok….. bingo! I'm right about that~ He said he frequented in Thailand is almost his second hometown….. I kinda joked to him said that maybe you had a children unknown in Thailand, you never know maybe you already be a Grandpa LOL

how ever, this time he come to Japan has a sacred mission! Since 311 East Japan earthquake and tsunami accompanied by the destruction of nuclear power, so the spread of radiation out all over~ Mr. Bill said he had a product is a landmark in the use of high-tech military products! Allows radiation disappeared without a trace in the air???? Uh ...... I do not believe - because there is no scientific evidence! this Little old man Mr. Bill thought he would be charged with the responsibility to rescue those suffering Japanese ..... Currently he has been unable to settle very well to find apartments in Japan, foreigners not easy to find a landlord who willing to rent and Bill's is kinda old age have respiratory problems too, to find a apartments would be very difficult for him…..

I'm curious and to calculate the age of 23 after he retired army, married a year but divorced, he has his almost fifty years by himself….. for his retirement money should be enough to support a family, but he chose to be a single nearly fifty years... sometime occasionally, I was saw him at lobby to use the Internet.... (sorry I'm definitely not purposely to peek) Mr. Bill often to visited a social sites to find some young woman to chat…..well, old man always love to find young girl! This may never change > < ummmm! Ah~ I want to say is maybe Mr.Bill is a lonely old man..... Sometimes Bobby san said: I'm feel sorry for him. Mr. Bill today miss the young Japanese girl again.... I only can said: Mr. Bill should be looking for is a little older and more understanding mature women, rather than those young girl who treat him as ATM machines! Bobby san says: It should be said Bill had a young heart, love to close nature in a pure white bunny so he may feel younger, right? I said: sorry, a little bunny also afraid of the Big Bad Wolf too >

anyway, Mr. Bill do like to remain single it's not my business, as long as he can be more behavior it's okay for Hotel, also, I found that he's gave me same feeling just like an Australia's old lady Margaret's they have a common point is…. stubborn but kind, like to cook stink salmon @@ once I can not stand the smell to asked him why salmon smell so heavy? when he open the refrigerator not for a whole the stink salmon filled the lobby immediately, I asked him to organize the refrigerator because it is common, not only for him use, as other guests well use too, also asked him to buy crisper taste at least a little less for the salmon smell!

for sure, I know Mr. Bill is an lonely guy! But he was lonely for so long can not said itself had no problem, a problem is his own choosing, I guess So, I was teaching him a little bit harsh! Because he always to think he can use the money to solve the problems out…….


Postscript:
day before we had a conversation, That I know why Mr. Bill he's remain single reason..... when he  back home form retired army, he bought a motorcycle, a car accident is also to destroy he's testicles….. it caused his marriage broken part of a reason too; in fact, Mr. Bill he's love child very much, he said : Once I was in a garage sale to see a little boy because he's mother had no money to help him to buy a bike, the little boy crying howl Amoy want to go get it, the little boy mother was embarrassed to put the little boy back to her car, then I went over to her window and knocked her door to said: I would love to pay five dollars bike money to your little boy to make him happy, after I put the bike to this little boy hands then left ! Mr. Bill is really a good man like a Santa Claus! Then Mr. Bill asked me why I do not have an children? I said: 「the time was past for me and I'm not younger anymore my physical will be too tired to take care with a baby! Maybe God wants me to help more people and share love with it~ wink my eyes!」 Mr. Bill said:「 I think so too, because you are a woman with a good heart !」 Aw ~ I'm really embarrassed too! I just feed the stray cats or take care guests to share the food that I make, this is really nothing to say……


Ah~ in the end! This is Mr.Bill sadness story..... well, he is very optimistic about he's life! at least he love to see some Asian social page LOL 

越戰老兵~比爾先生

今天,在大廳教一個阿拉斯加老伯伯如何使用iPad......
課堂都還沒開始呢我就一直聽到他唉唉叫!通常老人家很抗拒學電腦,因為覺得這是個令人沮喪的玩意兒永遠學不會,再不然很多專有名詞是他們聽不懂的要解釋頭髮都白了一大堆,而且Bill爺爺一直說眼睛看不到字太小巴啦巴啦的......我就說: 那你不要用啊!他又說沒辦法因為他要使用mail收信......嗯....

我要求他要拿筆記本記下來,一開始他很不想,但我跟他講每一個人學電腦都要筆記沒辦法用腦袋記!我很嚴格喔!因為我不想再解釋一遍!有什麼好抗拒?既然要用它就要接受!Bill爺爺光是電腦gmail登入問題就一直問我們快1個月了!他說寧可付錢請人幫忙也不想活受罪,我聽了就馬上堵他說:Bill 不是每一個人隨時都有空的! 錢也不是萬能,自從那次之後,Bill爺爺他就奮發圖強努力的記下我們告訴他的每一個步驟,我的同事由美醬很謝謝我幫她解決這個困擾!不然,她每天早上都會被老爺爺問安!

其實Bill先生不是壞客人!他在我們這邊住了有兩個月了,他是一名打越戰的美軍退伍傷兵,有一次我們邀請他一起用餐,席間,我詢問他是否有肺部氣管疾病?!因為他的呼吸聲非常響亮,於是他就告訴我他的故事了!他的家鄉在美國阿拉斯加~越戰發生時他是被強拉?!(這要研究一下)去戰場打仗,在一次勦越共的勤務中,被一名越共用槍托打斷氣管還是喉嚨我忘了@@ 於是他把越共給斃掉之後,自己用軍刀刺穿自己的喉嚨讓空氣流通,不然他無法呼吸!接著,被同組的同袍緊急後送到戰備醫療所手術治療,之後再轉往較大的戰備醫院住院了一年多,然後,返回美國接受治療發聲約四年他才可以用腹部的氣力練習發聲......

此時,我的腦袋裡突然蹦出阿甘正傳裡面的一段情節也是阿甘去打越仗, 他的上尉軍官丹先生也是在一起出勤務中負傷中彈,阿甘不顧生命危險的揹著上尉丹先生死命的跑給越共追 >< 阿甘正傳真的是一部好片阿~ㄜ離題了!

總之,大難不死必有後福的比爾先生,光榮返鄉之後,買了房子準備成家立業,殊不知婚姻一年就告吹,他把阿拉斯加的房子送給好朋友之後,就開始他的浪跡天涯的日子到處流浪或留情?我看他的衣服都是很符合他的身材量身訂做,我就說那一定是到泰國曼谷訂製的,賓果!被我說中了~他說泰國他很常去幾乎是他的第二個家鄉.....我開玩笑的說也許你不知名的孩子早已讓你在泰國兒孫滿堂了 LOL

總而言之~他這次來日本有著神聖的使命!自從311東日本發生地震與海嘯之後伴隨而來的是核能發電廠的破壞,讓輻射擴散出來~比爾說他有一個產品是劃時代連美軍都在使用的高科技產品!可以讓輻射能在空氣中消失無蹤???? ㄜ……本人我是不相信~因為沒有科學的證據!比爾老先生認為他身負這個重任就要來日本解救那些苦難的日本人.....目前他一直無法很順利的在日本找到定居的公寓,外國人要找房東願意出租的比例太少而且比爾年紀也大了又有呼吸道的問題,要找到一個固定的居所恐怕很難.....

我好奇的是算算他23歲從軍中負傷退役之後,結婚一年又離婚~他有快五十年都是自己單身一人度過的.....以他的退休月俸應該是足以養活一個家庭,但是他還是選擇單身一個人將近五十個年頭…偶爾,在大廳看他上網....(不好意思絕對不是蓄意偷看) 他常常逛社交網站找年輕的妹妹聊天.....男人果真愛找嫩妹呀!這應該是不變的定律 >< 咳!嗯~我要說的是比爾老爺爺內心是寂寞的吧?有的時候8比先生說比爾今天又被年輕日本妹放鴿子了.....我只能潑一桶冷水告訴8比先生說:比爾應該要找的是年齡大一點比較懂一些人情世故的女人而不是那些成天把他當成ATM提款機的嫩妹!8比先生說:應該是說比爾有一顆年輕的心,想要接近大自然裡的純潔小白兔好讓自己感覺更年輕吧? 我說:不好意思~小白兔都怕大野狼ㄟ >

總之,比爾爺爺喜歡保持單身也不關俺的屁事,只要他不吵不鬧就好~不過,我發現他跟澳洲的瑪格麗特有一個共通點....固執與好心腸之外還很喜歡煮臭掉的鮭魚@@我有一次受不了開口問他為什麼鮭魚飯腥味這麼重?整個冰箱一打開那鮭魚特有的腥臭味轟的馬上瀰漫在大廳,我要求他要整理冰箱因為是公用的,不是只有他在使用,還有別的客人觀感我們也是要留意,也要求他去買保鮮盒至少味道少一點!

其實,我知道比爾是孤獨的!但他孤獨這麼久不能說他自己本身沒問題,是他自己選擇的問題~所以,我對他的教學是比較嚴厲一點!因為他不能一直以為想用錢就可以解決問題.....總而言之~這是最近在飯店客人的狀況讓我比較印象深刻!

後記: 
在一次的交談過程中,知道了比爾先生保持單身的原因.....話說他退伍回到家鄉的時候,買了一台歐都麥,出了車禍連帶的也把蛋蛋給毀了.....也就造成他婚姻破碎的原因之一,其實,比爾先生是很愛小孩的~他說:「有一次我在一個車庫清倉拍賣會上看到一個小男孩因為媽媽沒錢幫他買一台腳踏車,男孩嚎淘大哭不想走,男孩的媽媽很難為情的把小男孩帶回自己車上,結果,我走過去敲了敲媽媽的車窗說要幫小男孩付了五元美金的腳踏車錢,我想要給這個小男快樂,把腳踏車交給小男孩之後就走了」比爾先生真是個好人根本就是聖誕老公公來著!接著他問我為什麼不生小孩?我說:「年紀過了而且沒體力帶小孩了!也許上帝要我的愛去幫助更多人吧~眨眼!」比爾先生說:「我也這麼認為,因為你是個很好心的女人!」唉唷~真是害羞呢!我只不過餵餵浪貓在不然就是招待客人美食,沒什麼好說的啦......

啊~原來!這就是比爾蛋蛋的哀愁.....不過他是很樂觀的老爺爺啦!至少會看亞洲嫩妹的社交網站 >